Friendships Fade
Tuesday, January 31st, 2006One of the things that I really hate about life is the fact that no matter how close you are to friends and family, you always end up separated. Whether it’s through death, distance, or simply drifting apart, the people you are close to now will not be the same people you are close to in the future. The only constant here is God, who said that he would never leave you or forsake you.
I take it to be a sign of humanity’s fallenness that friends can’t stick around forever. Something in human nature shattered the bonds not only between man and God, but also man and man. It was something that could only be restored by destroying human nature itself and replacing it with something new, something divine. That, of course, was Jesus’s whole death and resurrection bit.
Even still, I find myself constantly frustrated with the nature of the world and the human red-shift that gradually separates everyone from everyone else. I suppose it’s because this world hasn’t been restored yet, and (as far as I know) I’m a long way from Heaven’s gates (the real ones, not the wierd comet cult one). It’s wrong. And by that I mean, it’s broken and in need of restoration. That’s the nature of justice, I suppose: to right wrongs; to restore and breathe life into something that’s dying. It’s a romantic and chivalrous notion, not something the live-and-let-lives like to hear, but I believe it’s right.
It’s easy to do, in theory. All you need to do is love one another. That’s what Jesus did. And the relationship between one person and another is a reflection of the relationship between one person and God. But often I find myself hampered by my own ineptitude (Holy Spirit or not, I am still flesh and bone after all). I guess that’s why I find myself coming back to God time after time. His flesh and bone was already flayed and crucified.
So onward into the world I go again…



